2021年发朋友圈的优美文案

一、对爱你的女人，你可以让她哭，让她受委屈，但不要让她沉默，因为无言是一种最深的伤痛，是一个女人最悲的哭声。

For a woman who loves you， you can make her cry and suffer her wrongs， but don't let her be silent， because silence is the deepest pain and the saddest cry of a woman.

二、不是说前任送的东西，分手之后就不能保留，怕的是刻意珍藏，用心回味。那些属于彼此之间的回忆都会汹涌而来，而对于ta身边的你，不过是一时的新欢，还无法成为让ta久久不能释怀的旧爱。

it is not to say that the things sent by the predecessor can not be retained after the break-up， for fear of deliberately cherishing and deliberately aftertaste. Those belong to each other's memories will surge， and for you around him， is just a temporary new love， can not become a long-lasting old love for him.

三、人一定要有五样东西：扬在脸上的自信、长在心底的善良、融进血里的骨气、两侧外泄的霸气、刻进命里的坚强；爱情不伤人，伤的是永远实现不了的海誓山盟。失去不可怕，怕的是触景而伤情，睹物而思人。人生就像一场舞会，教会你最初舞步的人，未必能陪你走到散场。one must have five things: self-confidence on the face， kindness in the heart， bone in the blood， aggression on both sides， and strength in the life; love does not hurt people， but the vow of love can never be realized. Losing is not terrible. What we fear is touching the scenery and grieving， seeing things and thinking about people. Life is like a dance. The person who teaches you the first steps may not be able to accompany you to the end.

四、只有放得下，才能将该拿得起的东西更好地把握住，从而抓住最重要的东西。只有这样，你的人生才会更加精彩。如果真的爱了，无论分手与否，它都将伴你一生。哪怕后来有人来补空缺，之前的和后来的都是独一无二，因为没有两个人是一样的，两个人碰撞后也不会一样

only if we can put it down， can we grasp the things we can afford better and grasp the most important things. Only in this way can your life be more wonderful. If you really love， whether you break up or not， it will be with you all your life. Even if someone comes to fill the vacancy later， the former and the latter are unique， because no two people are the same， neither will they be the same after collision.

五、身边没撕破脸的人太多了，明明看透了很多人却不能轻易翻脸，对讨厌的人和事露出微笑是我们必须要学会的恶心。人的一生，本就是一个人人、识人的过程。有的人起始于相逢，终止于相处；有的人曾经入了眼，如今离了心。

there are too many people around us who haven't torn their faces. They clearly see through many people but can't turn their faces easily. Smiling at the people and things we hate is the nausea we have to learn. A person's life is a process of knowing and knowing people. Some people start from meeting and end from getting along with each other; some people have been in the eye， but now they are out of the heart.

六、人活一世，吃苦没什么不好，它能让你更好地珍惜甜的滋味；忍耐没什么不好，人生需要等待，没有沉默就难有爆发；平凡没什么不好，能够每天感受生活的美好，就是一种莫大的幸运；妥协没什么不好，退一步地阔天高，容忍别人其实是放过自己；失败没什么不好，只要摧毁不了你，只会让你更坚强。

people live a lifetime， hardship is nothing bad， it can let you better cherish the sweet taste; patience is nothing bad， life needs to wait， no silence will be difficult to break out; ordinary nothing bad， can feel the beauty of life every day， is a great luck; compromise is not bad， step back， tolerance others is actually let go of themselves; failure is nothing. No， as long as you can't be destroyed， it will only make you stronger.

七、尽己力，听天命。无愧于心，不惑于情。顺势而为，随遇而安。知错就改，迷途知返。在喜欢自己的人身上用心，在不喜欢自己的人身上健忘。如此一生，甚好。

do your best and obey the destiny of heaven. Be worthy of your heart， not confused with your feelings. Follow the trend and be at ease. If you know what is wrong， you will correct it， and if you are lost， you will know how to return. Careful in people who like themselves， forgetful in people who don't like themselves. Such a lifetime， very good.

八、碰到一点压力就觉得不堪重负，碰到一点不确定性就把前途描摹成暗淡无光，碰到一点不开心就把它搞得似乎是这辈子极黑暗的时候，大概都只是为不想努力而退缩找的很拙劣的借口。想要成功，除了努力，别无选择。

When you meet a little pressure， you feel overwhelmed. When you encounter a little uncertainty， you describe your future as gloomy. When you are unhappy， you make it seem to be the darkest time of your life. Probably it's just a bad excuse to retreat for not trying. To succeed， there is no choice but to work hard.

九、人都一个样，认不清自身问题，还长着一张喜欢说教的嘴。不管你是正在年轻着，还是曾经年轻过，你的一生终究要为了自己而努力拼搏一次，不管多辛苦，也不管结果会怎样，你都要勇敢的尝试一次。

everyone is the same. They can't recognize their own problems. They also have a preaching mouth. Whether you are young or have been young， you must strive for yourself once in your life， no matter how hard， no matter what the outcome， you must bravely try once.

十、朋友一生一起走，那些日子不再有，如果我们还是和曾经一样当朋友，我们是不是就会一辈子就会这样相互包容，可是这个世界上没有如果，也没有那么多为什么，有的只是失去后的追悔莫及而已，我多希望我们还可以做朋友，可以已经回不了头了。

Friends go together all their lives， those days are no longer there. If we were friends as we used to be， would we be tolerant of each other all our lives？ But there are no ifs in the world， and there are not so many reasons. There are only regrets after losing them. I wish we could be friends， but we can never turn back.

十一、最好的时光，是一个人坐在某处安安静静读书的时候。就像最美妙的孤独，是一个人坐在街边长凳不为任何人的等候。爱你就是，见不到你的时候，心里有好多话想和你说；你在身边时，觉得得静静地靠近你，即使不说话，也很好。

The best time is when one is sitting somewhere quietly reading. Like the most beautiful loneliness， is a person sitting on a bench on the street waiting for no one. Love you is， when you don't see you， you have a lot of words to say; when you are around， you feel quietly close to you， even if you don't speak， it's very good.

十二、一个人的美丽，并不是容颜，而是所有经历过的往事，在心中留下伤痕又褪去，令人坚强而安谧。所以，优雅并不是训练出来的，而是一种阅历。淡然并不是伪装出来的，而是一种沉淀。从某种意义上来说，人永远都不会老，老去的只是容颜，时间会让一颗灵魂，变得越来越动人。

A person's beauty is not his face， but all the past experiences， leaving scars in his heart and fading away， making him strong and quiet. Therefore， elegance is not trained， but an experience. Indifference is not disguised， but a precipitation. In a sense， people will never grow old， only the face， time will make a soul， more and more moving.

十三、每个人都有人性的另一面，请不要把他的另一半逼出来。当脾气好的人卸下底线，你连下跪的机会都没有。你一定要多多努力，好好生活，做一个可爱的人，做一个闪闪发光的人，不将就，不依赖，对过往的苦难情深义重，但绝不回头。

Everyone has another side of human nature. Please don't push his other half out. When a good-tempered person drops the bottom line， you don't even have a chance to kneel. You must work harder， live a good life， be a lovely person， be a shining person， not to go on， not to rely on， have a deep sense of the suffering of the past， but never look back.

十四、付出的时候，都说自己是心甘情愿，但没有得到回报的时候，还是会忍不住计较。与其烦恼，不如顺其自然。所有的事情到最后都会好起来的，如果不够好，说明还没到最后。你说你会爱我一辈子，可是我真傻，居然忘了问：是这辈子还是下辈子。你是我枯水年纪里的一场雨，你来的酣畅淋漓，我淋的一病不起。

when giving， they all say that they are willing， but when they don't get a return， they still can't help but care. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it. Everything will be all right in the end. If it's not good enough， it means it hasn't come to the end. You said you would love me for a lifetime， but I was so foolish that I forgot to ask: Is this life or the next life？ You are a rain in my dry age. You come so smoothly that I can't afford to get sick.

十五、面对别人不素的表白，耐心的倾听，不接受但尽量少的伤害别人，光考虑适不适合的问题，是没法活下去的。大部分人都生活得不顺当。当我们受到伤害或内心痛苦的时候，就会觉得自己像脱了壳的虾在爬。尽管如此，还是要向前爬。在爬的过程中积累各种各样的经验，然后渐渐找准自己的目标。

in the face of other people's unqualified confessions， listen patiently， do not accept but harm others as little as possible， just consider the appropriate and inappropriate problems， it is impossible to survive. Most people don't live properly. When we are hurt or suffering， we feel like shelled shrimp crawling. Nevertheless， we have to climb forward. Accumulate all kinds of experience in the climbing process， and then gradually find their own goals.

唯美洒脱的早安心语

一、曹操再奸都有知心朋友，刘备再好都有死对头，所以不要太在乎别人对你的评价，做好自己的人，干好自己的事，走好自己的路。早安！

二、余生很长，愿你拥抱自己，努力成长，眼里长着太阳，笑里全是坦荡。

三、你的对手在看书，你的仇人在磨刀，你的闺蜜在减肥，隔壁老王在练腰——你必须不断地努力，才能不让你的对手有可乘之机。早安！

四、错过的风景就别再留恋，离开的过客也别再纠缠，只有勇敢挥别错的，才能早日和对的相逢。早安！

五、有人帮你是幸运，学会心怀欢喜与感恩；无人帮你是命运，学会坦然面对与承担。没有人该为你做什么，因为生命是自己的，你得为自己负责。

六、不要把人生浪费在讨厌折磨你的人身上，一生只有一次的人生，好好过都嫌时间不够呢。你有你需要去爱护的人，好好去过你该过的人生。